Madonna, well known for pushing the limits of sexual content in her songs, released a sultry single entitled “Justify My Love” from her highly anticipated album at that time –The Immaculate Collection. In the month that followed, Madonna filmed a highly controversial and sexually charged five-minute video for the song, and submitted it to MTV which promptly rejected it on the excuse that it was just too hot for television. She was accused of promoting nudity, sex, sadomasochism, bisexuality, and other forms of sexual perversion, so the video was banned. In the highly erotic song, Madonna whispers most of the lyrics, accompanied by a woman’s heavy breathing and other sounds strongly suggestive of lovemaking, causing many radio stations to consider even the audio too obscene to be aired. But the controversy surrounding Justify My Love turned out to be a publicity and financial success that saw Madonna smiling to the bank. Everyone wanted a copy of the illicit video and it sold like hot cakes. The fact that it was “taboo” and banned made it more desirable. The audio single spent two consecutive weeks at No.1 in the early ‘91. Six million copies of the album on which the song appeared peaked at No. 2 on the Billboard charts. Today, the album is Madonna’s third-biggest album ever. The explanation for the popularity of Justify My Love is not too hard to guess. Sex is awesome and humans are sexual beings. And orgasms are the ultimate. During orgasms, our brains are flooded with information, both from our psyches and from the nerves in our genital region. There are millions of nerve endings on the clitoris, labia, vaginal opening, penis, testes, and perineum, all of which feel highly pleasurable when stimulated and aroused. But, if we’re comparing a normal male orgasm with a normal female orgasm, which is better? While there are ongoing debates that it might as well be a tie, the facts on ground show that if we are comparing the best of the best of orgasms, women win by a mile. Or two. The jury has been out with the verdict that the female orgasm is not just of superior quality, but usually lasts longer. So, like it or hate it, the best male orgasm simply cannot match the most intense and prolonged female orgasm. Why is this so? Over and over, studies make it clear that the most powerful female orgasmic experiences are more intense and last longer than the best that men can manage. A plausible explanation is that women are much more sexually variable than men, ranging from capability of having feeble, damp-squib orgasms to the awesome, earth-shattering, big-O. Unlike men, women are able to come down fairly gradually from a high level of arousal after an orgasm, which makes it relatively easy to climax all over again. In a controlled laboratory setting, using recorded data on heart rate, respiration, and involuntary muscle contractions to determine individual orgasms, the highest rate of orgasms ever recorded for a woman is an extraordinary 134 orgasms in an hour. In comparison, the most that any man has ever managed in similar lab settings, is a mind-blowing 16 orgasms in an hour – over eight times less than the woman’s capacity. It’s a crushing defeat. Ordinarily, a single female orgasm generally takes 15 to 25 seconds, with an average of about 21 seconds. In the record-breaking female orgasmic feat, the woman averaged one orgasm every 27 seconds. Orgasms come in waves, so each wave simply merged into the next, and it felt like one, continuous, hour-long orgasm. With an average time of about six seconds between one orgasm and the next, giving a total of around 47 minutes of real-time orgasms. Comparatively, the male orgasm usually lasts about 5-15 seconds, meaning the male lab subject could only attain a maximum of less than four minutes total. The bottom line is that a woman potentially has a nearly inexhaustible supply of orgasms, while a man doesn’t. Who is stronger sexually? Getting straight answers to this poser was not as straightforward as anticipated. It’s an endless debate. On the one hand, it appeared that men enjoy sex more; on the other hand, women enjoy more. A sex expert put it this way: “The amount of bad sex is probably greater than the amount of good sex. Women have a much wider range. It is, for example, far more common for a woman to have sex and not enjoy it, than for a man to have sex and not enjoy it. In other words, a man is more likely to have sex and enjoy it than a woman.” Another sexologist said: “When sex is bad, it is better for men than for women. When it’s average, it’s about equal, but when it’s good, it’s so much better for women than can be easily described.” Individuals of either sex, male and female enjoy sex more than other individuals. Some people, male and female, have higher sex drives than others; some had better past experience with sex than others, and so don’t bring negative baggage with them to the bedroom; some are more skilled at sex than others; some (generally due to upbringing) are more sexually liberated than others. Medically, a woman is likely to be more sexually aroused than a man. The explanation is simple. The clitoris is twice as sensitive as the glans (head of the penis) because it has twice the number of nerve endings. Yet neither of these parts needs to be stimulated at all to achieve orgasm. Quite a number of men and women confessed that they do a lot of pleasure from sex. There are of course times when one gets it more than the other. That really depends on the woman and the man in question. There are many people, both male and female who really don’t know how to relax and enjoy sex, just as there are men and women who know how to immensely enjoy sex together. Women enjoy multiple orgasms from different areas of their genitalia, while searching for the elusive g-spot orgasm. Perhaps it is because of these multiple orgasms and their length that women don’t require sex as often. For a lot of men it’s over fairly quickly and do not quite often experience deeper, longer orgasms, for the satisfaction to last longer. A lot of women have high sex drives while many still haven’t enjoyed an orgasm. Women don’t like to be rushed then left high, dry, and sexually frustrated. Men care about size of their organs, women are more attached to the emotional, physical, mental and psychologically
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